Discrimination against the  LGBTQ community


Did you know that “80% of gay and lesbian youth report severe social isolation.”(11 facts about LGBTQ life in America) Based on interviews and research it is clear that without support coming out can be a challenge for LGBTQ youth but when supported coming out can be empowering.

Firstly, if not supported coming out can be traumatic for LGBTQ youth and can lead to depression. This is important because the reason to why so many LGBTQ youth experience severe isolation is because they are being discriminated by their own peers and community members. I had the pleasure of going around and getting peoples personal opinion. I came across Oakland community members. We talked about the ways the LGBTQ community has been discriminated and what might be the cause for so many LGBTQ members to feel isolated and encapsulated. My interviewees name is Berenice Gutierrez, She stated, “I believe that from what I know, Oakland isn’t the safest place for LGBTQ community members to be because a lot of people when seeing LGBTQ members just being themselves they tend to judge quickly. I have seen cases in which LGBTQ members have been verbally and physically abused. I believe that this mistreatment is unfair because they have not brought any harm to the community” (Gutierrez). This matters because this mistreatment has caused emotional harm to the LGBTQ community. I would have to strongly agree with her statement, the LGBTQ community is not at fault for the abuse that they receive they just want to express who they believe they are. This supports my assertion about how coming out can become a challenge, the LGBTQ community is a really oppressed group and so much negative attention has been brought to them. This can cause them to feel ashamed of coming out and figure out what their likings are. Another example comes from the writer Dominique Mosbergen. She wrote an article about the LGBTQ community and asexual community. She collected people’s opinion on the LGBTQ community accepting Asexual people. Something that caught my eye was when one of the people mentioned in the article by the name of David Jay stated, “Gay people have really had it the hardest of all. From verbal abuse to being killed, they’ve been put under so much fire for expressing their sexuality. They’ve suffered a lot, they’ve paved the way”(Jay).The reason I chose to add this was because this proves that LGBTQ members have been oppressed for a long time and are forced to deal with the mistreatment. This supports my claim because it shows how a person who identifies as LGBTQ are disrespected and have had to cope on their own.

However, when supported the coming out experience can be positive. With the help of our community we can create a safe place. When it comes to coming out, members of the LGBTQ community may feel ashamed or scared of saying anything. I believe that as a community we can work to create a safe place for them to be able to express who they want to be without being labeled with so many different disrespectful assumptions.I have stated the struggles that make coming out a challenge. This is information has come from my personal opinion and sources that have helped me prove the oppression against the LGBTQ community. But I strongly believe that coming out can become an enlightening experience. Some may say that the LGBTQ community just want attention and that they have the support that they need. Although this mindset is not positive, I would still have to agree that Oakland has become a better and more supportive community. I believe that it all comes down to what part of Oakland LGBTQ members live in. Not many places are supportive of those who are involved with the LGBTQ community sometimes they might be considered homophobic.( Being  homophobic means that a person show dislike towards or don’t accept homosexual people). As I was initially stating I believe Oakland can be a supportive place. I want to introduce another interviewee her name is Victoria Tran. She is one close friend of mine who supports the LGBTQ community. As the other interview I asked for her thoughts on the LGBTQ community and if Oakland was a safe place for them to be. Tran stated, “ That depends on what part of Oakland they are in. But Oakland has become very supportive of the LGBTQ community. There is still bullying so not everything is sunshine and rainbows here but there will always be someone who will give support of a member of the LGBTQ community in need”(Tran). This is significant because just as I said, yes there is discrimination and LGBTQ members get stigmatized but when supporters take the time to help out these members it can make things easier for those who struggle coming out. This also proves that Oakland can be a safe place and can be a place where people can stay and count on somebody. This is important because if members are being supported it can help them get rid of their negative mindset and it can help them get over that pessimism some people might carry. Another piece of evidence comes from an article titled “Oakland opens first LGBTQ community center” in this article is information about as it is said in the title the opening of a new community center for LGBTQ youth in Oakland. Volunteers for this community center are planning on getting donations tobe able to help the LGBTQ community. One of the volunteers by the name of Jeff Myers stated, “This is a big moment for us!.Having a central space is critical, not just to come together, but a place to find support and resources during times of crisis” (Myers).This is important because Oakland has now created a safe place for LGBTQ members in need. This proves that Oakland has changed and it can be the supportive and caring community it should be. With this type of help members can finally come out of their shell and positively come out. As a member of the LGBTQ community myself I believe that this change will be great for not only the LGBTQ community on its own but the Oakland community as a whole.

In conclusion, I understand everyone is entitled to their own opinion and people will disagree with my statement but I believe that when the LGBTQ community is supported their coming out experience can become a powerful and positive experience. Although I know I can’t change the mind of those who think the opposite I hope to open up their eyes to the kind of abuse the LGBTQ community has gone through. I believe that the changes that have been and will be happening will bring us together as a community and we can create a safe place not only for the LGBTQ community but for everyone is the Oakland community.

Annotated Bibliography

(sources written below)


“Facts About Suicide – The Trevor Project.” The Trevor Project, 2017, www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/preventing-suicide/facts-about-suicide/.

This article gives out information about suicide among the LGBTQ community. I believe this is a credible source because this information is to give out awareness about the percentages on the feelings of LGBTQ members. this is a project you can join if you are a member of the LGBTQ community and are in need the article made sure to cite the info they have gave out as well.


Gutierrez, Berenice. “LGBTQ community interview.” 24 Dec. 2017.

In this interview I got the opinion of an Oakland community member about hoe the LGBTQ community in Oakland are treated. We discussed about the oppression against the LGBTQ community and the changes Oakland has made for the LGBTQ community over the years.


Mosbergen, Dominique. “LGBT, Asexual Communities Clash Over Ace Inclusion.” The Huffington Post, TheHuffingtonPost.com, 21 June 2013, www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/21/lgbt-asexual_n_3385530.html.

In this article the author collected Info and opinions from different people about the LGBTQ community accepting Asexual members. Some of what was written in this article caught my attention and most statements were relevant. This source is credible because it doesn’t just include one persons opinion and it was recently updated which tells me that the author has brought in new ideas .


“Oakland opens first LGBTQ Community Center.” LGBT Weekly, Steve Lee, 2 Aug. 2017, lgbtweekly.com/2017/08/02/Oakland-opens-first-lgbt-community-center/.

This article shared information about the First community center for LGBTQ folks in Oakland. This source is credible because it is a source so that LGBTQ members are aware of this new center that they now have access to. The makers of the now community center are making sure that the LGBTQ community have a safe place to go to when in crisis.


Tran, Victoria. “LGBTQ community interview.” 23 Dec. 2017.

In this interview we talked about the positive side of support from Oakland to LGBTQ community. I believe that this interview is helpful because Victoria Tran has been a friend of mine for a long time and is a person who is open about her opinion. She is a supporter of the LGBTQ community.


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March 26, 2023 7:11 pm

Dear Kaly,

I read your article and it’s fantastic. As a young middle school girl who is LGBTQ+, this is very realtable. I really liked how you had real life probelms and solutions. I don’t think that most people realize how long LGBTQ+ members like me have discrimated and oppressed.

“80% of gay and lesbian youth report severe social isolation.” I find this true for my friends and myself. Me and so many of my friends isolate ourselfs due to our genders and sexualites.

Again, This artical is phenomenal. 🙂 I thank you for writing this!

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May 16, 2019 12:38 pm

Dear Kaly,

I am intrigued by your post because you offered eye opening statistics that really exposed the problems in society.
One thing you said that stands out for me is: “80% of gay and lesbian youth report severe social isolation.” I think this is sad because of the fact that people are isolated just because of their sexuality.
Thanks for your project. I look forward to seeing what you write next because I really understood more about the LGBTQ community and the problems we still need to fix.

please check out my blog where we also fight for LGBT equality: http://lgbtqhealthcare.home.blog

February 8, 2018 8:46 pm

Dear Kally,

After reading your post, I completely agree that the people in the LGBT+ community is treated unfairly and inhumanely. Even people that support the community are getting attacked and judged just because they are not what society wanted them to be. As a person that is very close to the LGBT+ community’s people, I have seen a lot of abuse and aggression against them. In fact, I have personally been mocked and oppressed because of this. I also found in a survey initiated by the “Human Rights Campaign” that “26% of gay men and 37% of bisexual men experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 29% of heterosexual men… 46% of bisexual women have been raped, compared to 17% of heterosexual women and 13% of lesbian… 40% of gay men and 47% of bisexual men have experienced sexual violence other than rape, compared to 21% of heterosexual men… 47% of transgender people are sexually assaulted at some point in their lifetime… Among people of color, American Indian (65%), multiracial (59%), Middle Eastern (58%), and Black (53%) respondents of the 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey were most likely to have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime… Nearly half (48 percent) of bisexual women who are rape survivors experienced their first rape between ages 11 and 17” (1). A large amount of LGBT+ people have experienced sexual assault/ abuse and it usually STARTS at a very young age ranging from 11-17 years old. I also believe that the people in the LGBT+ are being oppressed in schools. I have learned that after attempting to educate my classmate and tell him what the word “queer” meant but I was immediately stopped by a blocked screen. It seems that my school has blocked a majority of words that are related to the LGBT+ community. I also found in the “Human Rights Watch” website that in the states: Alabama, Arizona, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas and Utah, that there is a law that prevents teachers and staff from talking about LGBT+ issues at schools(2). Everyday, the people that are part of the community would be uneducated and feel oppressed. Another reason that you forgot is that they are treated very unfairly and looked down upon. I found in the Rolling Stones news website that, “A 2013 Pew Research Center survey found that 21% of the LGBT adults surveyed said their employer treated them unfairly because of their sexuality or gender identity”(3). This shows that even their employers are against them just for them trying to be themselves. I also found in the same website that, “Nearly 50% of black LGBT people have experienced employment discrimination. Rates are significantly higher for transgender workers- some 90% of trans people have reported experiencing on-the-job harassment or mistreatment, while 47% said that they were fired, not hired or denied a promotion because of their gender identity, according to a national survey”(4). A large amount of LGBT+ people are being mistreated and attacked on-the-job and from what I have seen, they are most likely harassed at home or just out of work.

February 7, 2018 5:54 pm

Dear Kaly,

I am thrilled by your post, “Discrimination Against The LGBTQ Community” because it gives a lot of detail and opinions on important things that still happen in the world regarding the LGBTQ community. I like the quotes you used because they were very strong and showed the real problems real people have been facing. I am also interested in LGBTQ rights and the struggles they endorse and this piece was a great inspiration.

January 31, 2018 6:31 pm

Dear Kaly,
One sentence you wrote that stands out for me is “if not supported coming out can be traumatic for LGBTQ youth and can lead to depression” . I think this is true because not a lot of kids that are part of LGBTQ want to come out because they are scared for what the people from the outside would say about them. I agree with you that the LGBTQ community don’t feel safe in Oakland because of what other might say or because they would get sexually abused or killed. One reason I say this is because a lot of people discriminate the way they are and how they express. I really liked your post it was interesting and you are telling other how people are against the LGBTQ and what are the things they do to them. Thanks for your writing. I look forward to seeing what you write next, because you catch the reader’s attention.

January 31, 2018 6:26 pm

Dear Kaly,
I am interested about your post, “Discrimination Against the LGBTQ Community”, because you talked about a topic that no one talks about. I think it’s important to talk about his topic because not a lot of people know about the LGBTQ community. One sentence you wrote that stood out to me is: “When it comes to coming out, members of the LGBTQ community may feel ashamed or scared of saying anything.” I think this is interesting because I didn’t think people struggled to be who they are. Another sentence that caught my attention was: “If not supported coming out can be traumatic for LGBTQ youth and can lead to depression.” This sentence stood out to me because it is saying that many people in the LGBTQ community face deppression and they are more likely to isolate themselves because they don’t get support. Thanks for your writing. I look foward to see what you write next.

January 31, 2018 5:24 pm

Dear Kaly,

I love your post “Discrimination Against the LGBTQ Community” because it talks about one of the very important topic that we should address. Showing that the different perspective on what people think about Oakland was really cool because some people think that Oakland was safe but at the same time other think that Oakland isn’t the safest place to come out of the closet. Even though it is 2018, there is still many problems that exist to this day that can’t be solve such as bullying. One sentence you wrote that stood out was, “Gay people have really had it the hardest of all. From verbal abuse to being killed, they’ve been put under so much fire for expressing their sexuality. They’ve suffered a lot, they’ve paved the way”(Jay). This just show how harsh the LGBTQ community is treated. Just being yourself could get you killed and that is scary and just plain sad. The judgement that comes from Oakland is terrible. Another sentence that I liked was, “This is important because if members are being supported it can help them get rid of their negative mindset and it can help them get over that pessimism some people might carry” (Guerrero). It shows the care that you have for the LGBTQ community and how much you want to help them. I do agree that Oakland can be very supportive even if there is discrimination. Thanks for your writing. I look forward to what you write next, because I think you have a great voice that should be heard. Your post was great and I think the next one will be even better.

January 22, 2018 4:57 am

Thanks for sharing this Kaly. We live a world where everything we do is judged by the outside and the inside is always not seen. Discrimination against the LGBT community has decreased through the past years, but it’s still an issue as we speak.

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